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David and Jonathan (Remember and Reciprocate)

David and Jonathan had a close relationship that demonstrated deep brotherly love. In this article, we will examine how their friendship was an example of remembering and reciprocating kindness towards others. By looking at how David showed kindness to Jonathan's son Mephibosheth, we can see how we can apply these principles to our own lives.

Remembering Kindness

In 2 Samuel 9, David asked if there was anyone left of the house of Saul whom he could show kindness for Jonathan's sake. David discovered that Jonathan had a son named Mephibosheth, who was crippled. Although Mephibosheth was Saul's grandson and was thus a potential threat to David's reign, David showed Mephibosheth kindness by inviting him to eat at his table and giving him the land that belonged to his grandfather Saul. David remembered the covenant he had made with Jonathan and showed kindness to his son in 1 Samuel 18:3. David had loved Jonathan just like his own soul.

Remembering the kindness that others have shown us is an essential part of reciprocating that kindness. When someone has helped us in the past, we should be grateful and remember their actions. This gratitude can motivate us to pay their kindness forward, just as David did for Jonathan's family. Remembering how others have helped us can also inspire us to be more empathetic and compassionate towards those around us, especially those in need.

David's kindness towards Mephibosheth is an example of how to reciprocate kindness. David showed kindness to someone who was unable to repay him, and this kindness reflected the covenant he had made with Jonathan. David's actions show us that we should not expect anything in return when we show kindness to others. Instead, we should be motivated by a desire to help and serve others.

Reciprocating kindness involves doing good to others, even when it is inconvenient or when we may not receive anything in return. It is important to note that reciprocating kindness does not always mean doing something for the same person who showed kindness to us. In some cases, the person may no longer be around or may not need our help. However, we can still pay it forward by helping others in need, just as David showed kindness to Jonathan's son even after Jonathan had passed away.

Applying the Golden Rule in Matthew 7:12, Jesus taught us to

"do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

This principle is often referred to as the Golden Rule, and it is a fundamental aspect of Christian living. When we apply the Golden Rule, we treat others with the same kindness, respect, and generosity that we would want for ourselves. By following this principle, we can create a culture of kindness and compassion in our communities. By treating others well, we create a positive environment around us, which can have a ripple effect and inspire others to do the same.

David and Jonathan's friendship was an example of remembering and reciprocating kindness towards others. By remembering the kindness that others have shown us and reciprocating that kindness, we can create a culture of compassion and generosity in our communities. Applying the Golden Rule is a practical way to demonstrate this kindness and make a positive impact on the world around us. Let us always remember and reciprocate.


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